A child is born in Massachusetts . . .

then what happens?

From birth to age 5, children develop more rapidly than at any other time in their lives. In the first year, children's brains double in size. By the time they are 5 years old their brains have grown to about 90% of adult size. In these early years, a remarkable one million new neural connections are formed every second.

During this developmental period, children display incredible physical, cognitive, linguistic, emotional and social growth - all of which help to set the foundation for their future success, health, and wellbeing.

The quality of children’s experiences in these early years has a significant impact on the strength of this foundation.

Early Childhood 101

Explore the journeys that Massachusetts families and young children take through the first 5 years of life, and the various systems they interact with along the way.

Click on the images below to learn more about the systems, programs, settings, and professionals

Anyone who works with young children (birth - 5 years old) in all early childhood sectors including care, education, social services, and health.

in Massachusetts that support young children and their families.

Or continue down the page to follow a family's journey, beginning at their child's birth and moving through the ages.


Note:  If you are looking for parent- and caregiver-friendly resources, we recommend this external website from the Commonwealth of Massachusetts.

Journey Map

360,000

There are nearly 360,000 children between the ages of 0 and 5 living in Massachusetts.

Every child's developmental journey is unique.

When a child is born, social determinants such as socio-economic status, gender, race, education level, and geography have a large impact on the path a child and family take, and the resources to which they do or do not have access.

Birth

A Child is Born

Birth
0-6 months
6 - 18 months
18 months - 3 years
3 - 5 years

During pregnancy, families are usually looked after by their primary care doctor or women’s health specialist as they navigate the childbearing experience. However, once that child enters the world, families are on their own to learn new skills and navigate new experiences every day. This includes balancing children and career, which can be a significant stressor for parents.

  • Physical Recovery

    After child birth, birthing parents might experience a lot of soreness and will need time for healing to take place, especially if a birth happened through a C-section. It is important for all birthing parents to receive a full physical exam during a postpartum check-up with their doctor(s). These initial check-ups are encouraged to happen within the first three weeks post-delivery and then again at 12 weeks.

  • Mental Health & Wellbeing

    It is common for birthing parents to experience sadness after giving birth due to a combination of hormones, lack of sleep, and navigating a new normal. However, if these emotions last past 14 days or increase in intensity this might mean that the birthing parent is experiencing postpartum depression, for which they should seek support. 

  • Nutrition & Exercise

    No matter the type of delivery the birthing parent had, it is important for the healing process to engage in regular movement/exercise and healthy nutrition. Reengaging in strenuous exercise should be a slower process, and the birthing parent should check in with their doctor before doing so (especially if the birthing parent had a C-section). 

  • Infant Care & Feeding

    The initial postpartum doctor visit for the birthing parent is also a time to check in on how the baby is doing - specifically, how the baby and birthing parent are proceeding with feeding and whether the baby is gaining weight. A parent having difficulty feeding their infant may seek the consultation of a lactation specialist.

Birth
FAMILY/CAREGIVER SUPPORTS
FAMILY & CAREGIVER SUPPORTS
Birthing Experience and Care for the Birthing Parent

Why use the term “birthing parent”?
Birthing parent is a more inclusive term to include not only women, but transgender parents, non-binary parents, LGBTQ+ parents, or other parents who can childbear. We use this term to be inclusive of a variety of parents who experience the birthing process.

Where and how one gives birth varies from person to person. Some choose to have midwives or doulas to support the birthing process in the comfort of their own home, while others choose to give birth in a hospital or other medical center. Health, safety, and comfort all play a role in the setting a parent chooses.

EQUITY CONSIDERATIONS
Given a long history of mistreatment of people color within the medical system, parents of color may feel distrustful of this system. Through interviews with parents, parents of color reported experiencing racism within the health system and receiving unfair treatment, lack of support, and inadequate care during birth.
Birth
FAMILY/CAREGIVER SUPPORTS
Health & Wellbeing

The Search for a Pediatrician

When and how families find a pediatrician varies. Parents may search online, seek recommendations from family and friends, or receive a referral from a healthcare provider to a community-based clinic. Given the essential nature of this relationship, it is important that families find someone they can trust.

Finding a doctor was trial and error. I was connected to my first doctor because she visited me in the hospital and was so positive and helpful. [I ended up choosing] a pediatrician who has children, because they can relate and share real experiences.


- Massachusetts Parent

Birth
FAMILY/CAREGIVER SUPPORTS
FAMILY & CAREGIVER SUPPORTS

Feeding & Lactation Support

Support for the birthing parent during and post birth can take multiple forms. Parents who encounter difficulties feeding their child, regardless of whether they are using breast or bottle, may seek support from a lactation specialist. Support groups such as breastfeeding groups can offer comfort, social support, and resources to birthing parents.

Birth
FAMILY/CAREGIVER SUPPORTS
FAMILY & CAREGIVER SUPPORTS

Home Visiting

Home visiting connects new and expecting parents with specialists who support them in navigating the early stages of a young child's life. Through home visits, caregivers can receive guidance on parenting and access to additional resources.

Birth

0 - 6 months

Seeing the World

Birth
0-6 months
6 - 18 months
18 months - 3 years
3 - 5 years

During the first 6 months of life, children are exploring the world around them and building dexterity and strength. Simultaneously, parents are dealing with lack of sleep, balancing responsibilities, reconfiguring family dynamics, and more. Supports during this time focus heavily on healthy development, as well as supporting the family unit with navigating their new reality.

  • Social-Emotional Milestones

    • Calms down when spoken to or picked up (2 months)
    • Looks at your face and is happy to see you (2 months)
    • Smiles (2 months)
    • Chuckles (4 months)
    • Looks at you, moves, or makes sounds to get or keep your attention (4 months)
    • Recognizes familiar people (6 months)
    • Laughs (6 months)
  • Physical/Motor Skill Milestones

    • Moves arms and legs (2 months)
    • Holds head steadily without support (4 months)
    • Brings hands to mouth (4 months)
    • Pushes up to elbows/forearms (4 months)
    • Rolls from tummy to back (6 months)
    • Leans on hands to support when sitting (6 months)

  • Language/Communication Milestones

    • Makes sounds other than crying (2 months) 
    • Begins cooing, sounds like “ooo” and “aaah” (4 months)
    • Turns head towards sound of your voice (4 months)
    • Makes sounds with you (6 months)
    • Makes squealing and raspberry noises (6 months)

  • Cognitive Milestones

    • Watches you move (2 months)
    • When hungry opens mouth (4 months)
    • Puts things in mouth to explore (6 months)
    • Closes lips to indicate does not want more food (6 months)

CDC Developmental Milestones
0-6 months
FAMILY/CAREGIVER SUPPORTS
FAMILY & CAREGIVER SUPPORTS

6 Well Baby Visits happen within the first 6 months of life

Pediatricians are often families’ main source of information in the first few years of life. Families typically meet with their pediatrician for “well baby" or "well child" visits multiple times in the first month of life.

0-6 months
HEALTH & WELLBEING
Health & Wellbeing

Monitoring Developmental Milestones

Within the first few months of life, monitoring a child’s development is a priority for families and other people in a child’s life. Developmental milestones are guidelines to help both caregivers and health professionals monitor and support children's growth and wellbeing. All children are unique, and many may experience developmental milestones either before or after projected dates without any cause for concern. However, some families may notice developmental delays that cause concern and may seek a referral for Early Intervention (EI).

0-6 months
FAMILY/CAREGIVER SUPPORTS
FAMILY & CAREGIVER SUPPORTS

Parenting Classes & Supports

The weight of parenthood comes with daily challenges and can be overwhelming. Many parents spoke to the struggles of balancing their children’s lives and their own mental health. Families may find solace and knowledge in parenting classes or support groups to build community, share challenges, and learn about new topics and skills.

It is hard to have 4 children under 5, even if you have support. With my fourth [child], my mental health and financial reasons made it harder to manage. Sometimes I can’t handle things, or don’t know what I’m doing and it causes stress. Parenting, my own personal life, managing everyone’s lives, COVID, paying attention to everything at the same time are all challenges I face.

- Massachusetts Parent

0-6 months

6 - 18 months

Navigating Surroundings

Birth
0-6 months
6 - 18 months
18 months - 3 years
3 - 5 years

During these months, children begin to notice and build skills for navigating and interacting with their surroundings, including building relationships with others outside their family unit. For children entering child care settings, this may be the first time the child is without their primary caregiver(s).

  • Social-Emotional Milestones

    • Shows facial expressions (9 months)
    • Reacts to name being called (9 months)
    • Reacts when parent leaves (9 months)
    • Plays games (12 months)
    • Mimics other children (15 months)
    • Claps when excited (15 months)
    • Points to show something of interest or brings object of interest (18 months)
  • Physical/Motor Skill Milestones

    • Sits without support (9 months)
    • Uses fingers to bring food closer to them (9 months)
    • Pulls up to stand (12 months)
    • Walks holding onto furniture (12 months)
    • Drinks from a cup without a lid with someone holding it (12 months) 
    • Takes a few steps independently (15 months)
    • Fully walks (18 months)
    • Scribbles (18 months)
    • Climbs on and off things without help (18 months)
  • Language/Communication Milestones

    • Starts using names for parents such as “mama” (12 months)
    • Understands “no” (12 months) 
    • Starts using other words besides names for parents (15 months)
    • Recognizes/looks at objects when you name them (15 months)
  • Cognitive Milestones

    • Bangs two things together (9 months)
    • Looks for objects when dropped (9 months)
    • Puts things in containers (12 months) 
    • Tries to use things the “right” way like phones, books, etc. (15 months)
    • Copies you (18 months)
CDC Developmental Milestones
6-18 months
EDUCATION & CARE
Education & CARE

Navigating Child Care

Parents returning to work and other responsibilities may need support caring for their children. Regardless of whether they engage family members, siblings or neighbors, or choose a formal setting such as a child care center or family child care home, their main concern is likely finding someone they trust to care for their child. Affordability, schedule, program quality, and an accessible location are also core factors in their decision process.

6-18 MONTHS
COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT
Community Engagement

Play Groups

Play groups are community activities, either formal or informal, that provide children with socialization, fun activities, learning opportunities, and more before they enter school. These activities allow families and children to bond and develop important lifelong skills through play.

EQuity Considerations
For some families and children across the state, community offerings, such as play groups, may not be easily accessible or offered in an inclusive manner. Language and/or physical accessibility, cross-cultural offerings, diversity, and representation of staff working can affect a family's ability to feel welcome, safe, and included in the community.
6-18 MONTHS

18 months- 3 years

Building Independence

Birth
0-6 months
6 - 18 months
18 months - 3 years
3 years - 5 years

As children exit infancy and enter their toddler years, they begin to build self-confidence and spend more time discovering the world around them. Implementing healthy habits (with support from healthcare providers, early childhood educators, and community) such as encouraging lots of play time, eating healthy foods, introducing potty training, and staying up-to-date on immunizations are all important during this time.

  • Social-Emotional Milestones

    • Notices others' emotions (24 months)
    • Pauses to see parents' reaction in a new situation (24 months)
    • Self-soothes after 10 minutes when parent or caregiver leaves (3 years)
    • Notices other children and goes to play with them (3 years)
    • Shows others what they can do (“Look at me!”) (3 years)
  • Physical/Motor Skill Milestones

    • Runs (24 months)
    • Kicks a ball (24 month)
    • Demonstrates ability to twist things (30 months)
    • Jumps off the ground with both feet (30 months) 
    • Turns book pages (30 months)
    • Puts on some clothes independently (3 years)
  • Language/Communication Milestones

    • Points to things in a book when you ask, for example, “Where is the bear?” (24 months)
    • Says multiple words (at least 2) in combination such as “more milk” (24 month)
    • Uses about 50 words including words such as I, me or we (30 months)
    • Asks who, what, where and why questions (3 years)
    • Says what action is happening in a picture when asked, like running, eating, or playing  (3 years)
    • Talks well enough for most to understand (3 years)
  • Cognitive Milestones

    • Tries to use things such as knobs, switches etc. (24 months)
    • Shows simple problem-solving skills (30 months)
    • Follows 2 - step instructions such as “put the book down and close the door” (30 month)
    • Draws a circle when you show them how (3 years)
CDC Developmental Milestones
18 MONTHS - 3 years
EDUCATION & CARE
Education & CARE

Transitioning to Preschool

High quality early childhood education can set a child up for success developmentally, socially, and academically. It can support enrichment, learning, and activity, while allowing families to earn a viable income in the workforce.

Equity considerations
Families and caregivers who work non-traditional hours and need access to child care outside of the usual offerings (for example, 8 AM - 4 PM) may experience hardship due to this lack of support. This could mean working fewer hours and earning less money or relying on older siblings or relatives for care. Additionally, the pandemic caused many providers to adjust their hours due to lack of staffing, making evening care even less available. This burden disproportionately falls on hourly wage earners in service industries and families/caregivers that work multiple jobs.
18 MONTHS - 3 years
COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT
Community Engagement

Connecting with the Community

Children absorb information everywhere they go. Libraries, museums, zoos, and other community organizations greatly contribute to children's learning and development.

18 MONTHS - 3 years

3 - 5 years

Navigating the Social World

Birth
0-6 months
6 - 18 months
18 months - 3 years
3 - 5 years

No longer infants or toddlers, 3 - 5 year old children are building their friendship muscles, moving from individual play to collaborative play, displaying independence, and learning new skills for navigating the social world. 

  • Social-Emotional Milestones

    • Changes behavior based on the situation (4 years)
    • Pretends to be something else during play (4 years)
    • Tends to avoid danger/dangerous situations (4 years)
    • Consoles others when hurt or sad (4 years)
    • Follows rules and takes turns (5 years)
    • Does simple chores at home (5 years)
  • Physical/Motor Skill Milestones

    • Catches a ball (4 years) 
    • Serves self food or drink with supervision (4 years)
    • Holds pencil or crayon with finger and thumb (4 years)
    • Buttons some buttons (5 years) 
    • Hops on one foot (5 years) 

  • Language/Communication Milestones

    • Talks about things that happened during the day (4 years)
    • Repeats words from songs, stories, nursery rhymes (4 years)
    • Tells stories they heard or made up (5 years)
    • Recognizes rhymes, e.g., cat-bat, mouse-house (5 years)
  • Cognitive Milestones

    • Tells you what comes next in a well known story (4 years) 
    • Counts to 10 (5 years) 
    • Uses vocabulary around time (yesterday, today, morning, night) (5 years) 
    • Writes some letters in their name (5 years) 
    • Names letters when you point to them (5 years)
CDC Developmental Milestones
3 - 5 years
EDUCATION & CARE
Education & CARE

Preparing for Elementary School

As children approach 5 years of age, caregivers may start to make a decision about their K-12 schooling, whether that means a public, private, or parochial school, homeschooling, or other type of education setting. Placement decisions may be based on many factors, including location, cost, quality rating, word of mouth, cultural preferences, and/or slots available.

I went to an event at my local school district with open houses and signed him up to as many places as I could find that sounded like a good fit, and he got accepted to one I heard good things about. He is thriving there now.

- Massachusetts Parent

3 - 5 years
EDUCATION & CARE
Education & CARE

Obtaining Special Education Services

Students 3 years of age and older who need additional support, whether that be academically, social-emotionally or otherwise, may go through a process to receive an Individualized Education Program (IEP) through special education services at their identified school.

3 - 5 years
COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT
Community Engagement

Enrichment Beyond the Classroom

Once enrolled in a public or other school program, children can access out-of-school time programming. Before- and after-school programs offer further developmental growth and enrichment activities for children while allowing parents more flexibility with work hours and other needs.

3 - 5 years
For the purposes of this website, early childhood is defined as birth through 5 years old. This includes the experiences of children and their caregivers

How we use “Caregiver”
The term “caregiver” can have various meanings. Within EC101, we refer to a caregiver as someone that is a parent equivalent and is raising a child full time. This may include biological parents, grandparents, guardians, foster parents, other family members, etc. When discussing early childhood workforce we use the term early childhood educator.

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All developmental milestones come from the American Academy of Pediatrics and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

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